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Little bean
May 31, 2012, 11:26 PM
Hi, so I'm 23 years old, and I been in this relationship for almost 1 year and about 4 months. I been diagnose with endometriosis, and I basically been giving 3 yrs to have a baby, otherwise I have a risk of not having a baby later on. I explained to my boyfriend what I have, and of course he didn't take it as well he is 24, and he has asked for some space.. So it been a week with no contact at all, but today we bumped and it was all weird like we were some sort of strangers. I asked him when are we going to talk? And he said I'll let you know. The thing is Im limit on time with my health and future wise and I said I'll give him space, but the problem is I don't know how long is enough and because I'm so impatience. I have giving him an ultimatum of 2 more weeks.. Which will end up being 3 weeks of space.

Is that a wrong thing to do?

C0bra_M3nace
Jun 1, 2012, 08:29 AM
He's not ready for a child its clear in his actions, and honeslty, I really hate to say it, but are you ready for a child too, or do you just want to have a child because you may not be able to in 3 years. There are many alternatives to becoming pregnant, you need to ask yourself if you're ready too.

Best of luck.