My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 9 years. We know everything about one another. I'm not going to lie, I've done bad things, however it was years ago. We have both done each other wrong and its very sad. But that was back then and now we live with each other. I was not honest and true back then but I have changed my ways so much and he knows it. I cater to him in every way and we have grown very close now that we live together.

But he is very mean to me and I'm mean to him. Only cause I don't want him to think he has me wrapped around his finger. I don't like to talk to him but I feel I need to cause he does it to me. He is a big time porn freak. He has pictures of girls all over his phone. Is it wrong that I allow it. I want to make him feel the way he makes me feel but it seems like nothing fazes him. I just want to show him how it feels. No matter what we are going to be with each other. Am I being immature?when will he want me and only me?

What should I do? I really want to make him see how it feels! What should I do?

Now one thing I can see wrong with this relationship is your nacks for "getting back" at each other. You both need to learn communication and mutual compromise. Talk to him about how you feel, instead of nagging him.

I used to be into porn myself, I kept it kind of a secret to the girlfriend, but she found it eventually, she voiced to me how she feels about it, and I voiced how I. She didn't like it, it made her feel as if she wasn't enough, or I was trying to replace her. I never meant to replace her, nor was I unsatisfied, but I stopped because I didn't want her feeling that way.

Communication is key, if you can't talk about your feelings and compromise, or fix them, the foundation of your relationship will crumble along with everything it holds up.