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minnie lover
May 30, 2012, 01:19 PM
now I had dated my ex boyfriend for 4 months I broke up with him because he liked my best friend and she likes him back! He asked me out I said yes. She decided we could share him. I didn't mind I did it already 2 times before. So we where. I broke up with him because it felt wayyy wrongg. She decides to bring him on his first date when we had dated for 4 months and never kissed or went on a date. She wants me to go with her too. She hooked me up with someone I only like as a friend. They have dated 4 days. Not righttt. She also ignores me now and only talks to hime everyday after school he doesn't even try to talk to me!! I'm still in love with him.=( what do I do. Should I ignore it or move on from him.

Krich
May 30, 2012, 01:37 PM
Don't be her friend and forget the guy find someone else's,because no one needs to share there man thts not right!so just tell her your not her friend and find another man

Alty
May 30, 2012, 01:40 PM
They're together. You had a chance to tell her that you're in love with him, but it sounds like you didn't do that. In fact, it sounds like you told her it was okay. Suddenly it's not okay.

She can't read your mind.

Fact is, you mentioned school, so I'm guessing you are all very young. They won't last. You have to decide who's more important, some guy that you'll probably never see again after school is over, or your friend, who didn't know how you felt about this guy.

Or you can just walk away from both of them. Your choice.

Homegirl 50
May 30, 2012, 03:41 PM
Hey you agreeded to share, so don't be mad at him or her.
I would not go out on that date if it bothers you and I'd leave them both alone. The next time, give something like that more thought before you do it.