tearstodiamonds
May 30, 2012, 05:27 AM
Moved to its own question.
I and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half and we have been living together for about a year. The first couple of months that we were together, everything were great. Slowly, he started withdrawing all his affection. Day after day he comes home from work and never kisses me hello and night after night he falls asleep without ever holding me. I have not felt his arms around me for over a year. He does not know if he loves me. I do absolutely everything for him, not to be loved, but because I love him. I don't require constant displays of affection, but all this makes me feel cold and lonely. We talk about being together forever, but I don't know if I can stand outside his heart for that long. Does anyone know why this could be happening, am I doing something wrong? Please help...
Ps. He is rarely ever intimate with me anymore. It feels like we're just really good friends...
I and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half and we have been living together for about a year. The first couple of months that we were together, everything were great. Slowly, he started withdrawing all his affection. Day after day he comes home from work and never kisses me hello and night after night he falls asleep without ever holding me. I have not felt his arms around me for over a year. He does not know if he loves me. I do absolutely everything for him, not to be loved, but because I love him. I don't require constant displays of affection, but all this makes me feel cold and lonely. We talk about being together forever, but I don't know if I can stand outside his heart for that long. Does anyone know why this could be happening, am I doing something wrong? Please help...
Ps. He is rarely ever intimate with me anymore. It feels like we're just really good friends...