Is there a way to find out if the request is legit?

What is being requested?

In total, LESS than $300 all in.
There is NO requirement for police reports or other medical information.

How did you meet, What have they asked for.

If they want more as noted about 300 dollars, then it is a fraud. Give us more of the story and we can give you more advice

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