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angelfairy
May 27, 2012, 08:15 AM
I really love one boy he also loves me back we met each other from Facebook. From 8 months we re connected with each other and known well and I think that he is the right partner for me so want to marry with him. I asked him for this and he is ready & m sure that he will never cheat me, but the roblem is that my family member never allow or never support me for this just because we are fb mets so please tell me that what I have to do? I really love him a lot & never live without him. I want to get him forever & ever. If he doesn't got me then I will surely die so please show me the way please guide me that what I have to do? I love him also & my parrents are also, they are my god & never want to hurt them plese guide me I need your help! Help me

ScottGem
May 27, 2012, 08:23 AM
If you have never met him in person or spent some fact to face time with him you can't mike such a life altering decision.

You need to more time to let this relationship develop from the cyberspace to the real world.

LearningAsIGo
May 29, 2012, 12:40 PM
Neither of you can fully commit to each other without spending actual time together. Eight months is NOT a long time to know someone, especially when its only been on the Internet. How do you to know he's being truthful? How is he to know that you are someone he can live with as a partner for life?

There are Internet success stories but when you don't get to know each other IRL the chances of relationship failure are greater than ever.

You mentioned not wanting to hurt your parents but you know this will cause them a great deal of disappointment and pain.

I see only one way - talk to them about your deep feelings and tell your "intended" that you need to meet in person. I'm not sure how old you are but if you're underage, that's obviously a huge issue.