View Full Version : First-time sex--am I pregnant?
Female1234
May 26, 2012, 02:43 PM
So I had sex for the first time 2 days ago. He used a condom, and didn't inside of me. He cummed like 10 minutes after pulling out from me jacking him off. I have a bladder infection, but I know it's not an STD. Am I pregnant? I'm scared he could have precummed or something or the condom broke. Help pleaseeeeee!
Kitkat323
May 26, 2012, 02:58 PM
Trust you'd know if the condom broke. I think your just a little bit paranoid since it was your first time, it seems to me that you did everything and I think unlikely that you are pregnant. But I think it would be a good idea for you to think of going on some sort of contraceptive.
Female1234
May 26, 2012, 04:04 PM
trust you'd know if the condom broke. i think your just a little bit paranoid since it was your first time, it seems to me that you did everything and i think unlikely that you are pregnant. but i
think it would be a good idea for you to think of going on some sort of contraceptive.
I'm so scared.. Should I take a pregnancy test at home?
Female1234
May 26, 2012, 04:24 PM
I went to the doctor today because it hurt when I peed. They made me pee in a cup to see what was wrong with me. I have a bladder infection. Would testing my pee tell them if I'm pregnant? I had my first sex 2 days ago, and he used a condom. He didn't inside of me or anything. I'm so scared. Should I take a home pregnancy test? I have First Response. Helppppp!
joypulv
May 26, 2012, 04:46 PM
They might have done pregnancy while looking for infection, but 2 days is way too soon to find out. Tests won't be near accurate until a week or so past your first missed period (or very light period).
Condoms are not very good at preventing pregnancy. Rates I've seen vary, but run around 25% failure rate.
ScottGem
May 26, 2012, 04:54 PM
Any time you have penile insertion there is a risk of pregnancy. You can reduce the risk, but not eliminate it. And you really don't know if he let go of any sperm while inside or not.
The time to take a test is about 2 weeks after you miss your period.
DrBill100
May 26, 2012, 04:54 PM
I went to the doctor today because it hurt when I peed. They made me pee in a cup to see what was wrong with me. I have a bladder infection. Would testing my pee tell them if I'm pregnant? I had my first sex 2 days ago, and he used a condom. He didn't inside of me or anything. I'm so scared. Should I take a home pregnancy test? I have First Response. Helppppp!
While urinalysis can detect pregnancy it cannot do so at 2 days. Closer to 2 weeks (must follow implantation). Read the information on your First Response home test and it looks for the same pregnancy hormone hCG (Human Chorionic Gonadotropin) and will be likewise ineffective at that short time interval.
Female1234
May 26, 2012, 05:16 PM
They might have done pregnancy while looking for infection, but 2 days is way too soon to find out. Tests won't be near accurate til a week or so past your first missed period (or very light period).
Condoms are not very good at preventing pregnancy. Rates I've seen vary, but run around 25% failure rate.
My periods are irregular, so when should I take a home pregnancy test? It's been like 3 weeks since my last period but I don't know when I'm going to start back
Kitkat323
May 26, 2012, 05:28 PM
Wait for at least 3 weeks to take a pregnancy.. also you still have time to take the morning after pill as an extra precautionary if you haven't already done so
Female1234
May 26, 2012, 05:53 PM
wait for at least 3 weeks to take a pregnancy.. also you still have time to take the morning after pill as an extra precautionary if you haven't already done so
Could I go get the pill tomorrow?
Kitkat323
May 26, 2012, 05:57 PM
Yes the morning after pill works up to 72 hours ( 3 days) after having unprotected sex
Female1234
May 26, 2012, 06:11 PM
yes the morning after pill works up to 72 hours ( 3 days) after having unprotected sex
But we used a condom, and he didn't inside of me. He pulled out, took the condom off, and starting jacking off over the toilet. And as I got dressed he cummed into the toilet
Kitkat323
May 26, 2012, 06:20 PM
You can still ask for the morning pill
ScottGem
May 26, 2012, 06:34 PM
But we used a condom, and he didn't inside of me. He pulled out, took the condom off, and starting jacking off over the toilet. and as I got dressed he cummed into the toilet
I said it before any time you have penile insertion you risk pregnancy. The chances of you being pregnant are very small, but not zero.
Female1234
May 26, 2012, 06:56 PM
I said it before any time you have penile insertion you risk pregnancy. The chances of you being pregnant are very small, but not zero.
If we had sex around 10 or 10:30 Thursday morning, would I still have time to take Plan B?
Female1234
May 26, 2012, 07:49 PM
I said it before any time you have penile insertion you risk pregnancy. The chances of you being pregnant are very small, but not zero.
So should I be freaking out? And should I take a pregnancy test in the next week?
ScottGem
May 27, 2012, 04:15 AM
No you shouldn't be freaking out, But you should wait a few weeks until you are sure your period doesn't come.
Female1234
May 27, 2012, 08:54 AM
No you shouldn't be freaking out, But you should wait a few weeks until you are sure your period doesn't come.
Is the possibility that I'm pregnant large or small?
ScottGem
May 27, 2012, 09:11 AM
Small
Female1234
May 27, 2012, 09:29 AM
small
He used protection, but he might have precummed. How would that get me pregnant if there was a condom blocking it? I know for a fact he didn't actually ejaculate
ScottGem
May 27, 2012, 12:06 PM
You are not getting this. Once more: ANY time you have penile insertion then pregnancy is a possibility. The risk can be reduced but NOT eliminated.
You want us to tell you that you are not pregnant. We can't because there was penile insertion. NOTHING you can say about what precautions you took will allow us to guarantee you are not pregnant. All you can do now is wait.
tessa0987
May 27, 2012, 04:54 PM
Wacth what you take.. if your pregnet you could be killing the baby.. if you are pregnet , remember everything happens for a reason. How old are you?
ScottGem
May 27, 2012, 04:56 PM
The word is pregnant, if you are going to give advice about it, learn how to spell it. How old are you?
Mod Note: She is 13 based on other posts
Female1234
May 27, 2012, 07:05 PM
The word is pregnant, if you are going to give advice about it, learn how to spell it. How old are you?
Mod Note: She is 13 based on other posts
I'm 16
J_9
May 27, 2012, 07:17 PM
I'm 16
Scott was referring to the other poster Tessa regarding her age.
Now, Female, stressing will only cause your period to be even more delayed, so you need to stop stressing over this.
The chances are practically slim to none that you are pregnant from this particular encounter. Just take a deep breath and relax.
Take this as a lesson learned though. If you are not ready to be pregnant, or be a mother, avoid sex like the plague.
Female1234
May 28, 2012, 09:55 AM
Scott was referring to the other poster Tessa regarding her age.
Now, Female, stressing will only cause your period to be even more delayed, so you need to stop stressing over this.
The chances are practically slim to none that you are pregnant from this particular encounter. Just take a deep breath and relax.
Take this as a lesson learned though. If you are not ready to be pregnant, or be a mother, avoid sex like the plague.
All right thank you so much!