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samirtourguide
May 26, 2012, 01:21 PM
Hi how are you I hope all is fine and thanks for that help so please I want to ask I question so first I have I friend and she is convert to islam she wants to ask about something because she asked me and I didn't know what's to say so she covert to islam and now she is muslim so she wants to ask about marriage so first she meet I muslim man and she marry him I mean she meet him and then the went to masjid because the meet in europien country so she meet him and the went to get married so when the want to get married there were imam and 2 Witnesses so the write I papers to show that so is married to him in allah way and then her husband left because of problemes of money and the talk sometimes but in her identiry card it shows that she is not married but is it haram if she wants to marry anather one because her husband is not with her any more or she has to wait him or she has to divorce even if it shows in her identity card that she is not married please I hope you will answer this questions

dandds
May 26, 2012, 02:21 PM
Nonsense. I am the sheik and I say she is not married. Never consummated. Needs to have sex 13 times and they didn't. She is free to go, no haram.

talaniman
May 26, 2012, 03:51 PM
Marriage in Islam - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marriage_in_Islam)

In Islam, marriage is a contract (Standard Arabic: عقد القران; Egyptian Arabic: كتب الكتاب Katb el-Ketāb; Urdu: Nikahnama) between a man and woman to live as husband and wife. A formal, binding contract is considered integral to a religiously valid Islamic marriage, and outlines the rights and responsibilities of the groom and bride. The marriage must be declared publicly. Divorce is permitted.


In addition to the usual marriage until death or divorce, there is a different fixed-term marriage known as Nikāḥ al-Mutʿah ("temporary marriage") permitted only by Twelvers (a branch of Shia Islam) for a pre-fixed period.

She is indeed married despite the screwed up ID, and only a divorce can free her to marry another. The original Iman from the marriage can guide her best.

jenniepepsi
May 27, 2012, 01:16 PM
As a revert to Islam, she is not following Allahs word when she left her husband for such reasons.
Was he unfaithful?

I would suggest she speak to the Imam who married them as Talaniman said. If the only problem with her marriage is money problems and words being said, there is still hope for her marriage. And with the help of the Imam, I believe they can reconcile this.

If however, he has cheated on her, or mistreated her, she may seek divorce, again with the guidance of her Imam.