My husband was sexually abused as a child, as he getting older his behavior is getting more erratic. I think he is a bipolar personality. When our daughter is downstairs and I up and it's just him and her watching TV, he has tried to give her back massages just told him to stop but he just continues and when I told him he said he was having fun. Then another time she told me he was talking about my body about my curves to our daughter.

I am seriously considering leaving him, it does not seem like he will change.

The question here is are you better off with him or without him. Only you can answer that question.

But before you make such a decision, you need to make sure he sees a competent mental health professional.