He finally got my cherry to pop without a condom (we plan on using them from now on, we talked about it -- We we will have no worries) He didn't inside the worst -- Maybe pre-. He hadn't ejaculated since the day before and had showered and urinated a lot thru-out the day. Should we be worried or is everything in the clear for now? (If I could be possibly PREGNANT?)
Also, it happened last night but I'm all "Slimy" and there is still some blood.. Is that normal?

Ive been a bit nauseated the last few days in the morning (Not bad though) And the only other sexual encounter was during and right after my period where we only rubbed bare (And again the worst he had was pre- -- The one time he had ejaculated a few hours before)

Could I still be Pregnant? :( The only sign I've been feeling is that slight nausea. Other than that no other symptoms.

Just remember pre-ejaculate is dynamite too.

Just remember pre-ejaculate is dynamite too.


I've heard that if he hadn't ejaculated for a few days and/or has been washed out with urine it should be fine? He hadn't ejaculated last night when he popped my cherry.

I've heard that if he hadn't ejaculated for a few days and/or has been washed out with urine it should be fine? He hadn't ejaculated last night when he popped my cherry.


Let me re-phrase that, he hadn't ejaculated previously or during popping my cherry.

How did he "pop your cherry" then? Dry penetration, finger? How? If it was by penetration, how do you know there was no pre-ejaculate? What am I missing here. "slimy" is ejaculate.

He popped it with his penis. - No actual - Possible Pre- (hadn't ejaculated for a few days - Lots of urination and showered since then) - and slimy as in the next day with some of the bleeding still left over from cherry being popped. Not slimy from him.

Anytime you have unprotected sex you leave yourself open to pregnancy, there are MILLIONS of sperm in pre ejaculate, he can shower all he wants, he can pee all he wants, it won't stop the pre ejaculate having sperm in it.

The bloody slimy symptoms your experiencing could possible be normal however I'm not qualified to say.

If its been more then 72 hours since you had sex its too late for plan B, and you just have to wait it out till you either get your period or miss your period.

Let me re-phrase that, he hadn't ejaculated previously or during popping my cherry.

I think you had better start reading up on this topic, you seem to be confused about this whole sex and pregnancy issue. If you don't educate yourself, and you are not pregnant this time, you may be next time.

Sure, wearing a condom is okay, but if he doesn't put it on before foreplay, and there is pre-ejaculate involved, then you had better start counting the days.