Ok to try and make a long story short, I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now. His my very first boyfriend, I grew up with him and his my first time with everything, I can't see myself to be comfortable with anyone else, except the only problem I have is when he wants to go down on me I start to feel shy and weird. I start getting all embaressed, I know there's nothing wrong with me (if you get my drift) but I still just can't get used to it. So I was just wondering is it normal to feel that way or if anyone else experiences the same way I feel? If not, then I guess I'm just weird haha. Oh and I'm 22 :)

Try talking to him about it. I don't believe it is normal to feel that way, but maybe you really aren't into that. If that's true,there's nothing wrong with that, but you should let him know.

You should definitely talk it over with him. Maybe you just don't like it. But there are some girls that simply do not like them down there, normally it is because even though there is nothing wrong with them, they still feel like they do. You can continue to practice it until you get used to it or you are more comfortable with yourself, or you can ask him to stop, he should respect your decision whichever way you decide to go.

Try talking to him about it. I don't believe it is normal to feel that way, but maybe you really aren't into that. If that's true,there's nothing wrong with that, but you should let him know.

Thank you! I guess your right, I probably ain't into it, it jut doesn't feel right for me for some weird reason. I've explained it to him, he respects what I say and my decisions. Thanks for your help.


You should definitely talk it over with him. Maybe you just don't like it. But there are some girls that simply do not like them down there, normally it is because even though there is nothing wrong with them, they still feel like they do. You can continue to practice it until you get used to it or you are more comfortable with yourself, or you can ask him to stop, he should respect your decision whichever way you decide to go.

Thanks for your help! Spoke to him and he respects everything I told him :)

Glad everything worked out! :)