Well I went to meditation Orientation today and my ex wasn't there. I found out from the mediator that he was suppose to be there on the 9th as was I but I moved my date due to my Husbands grandfather passing... so they sent another notice when I moved the date for him to show up at this one and he did not. They are going to give him one last chance to show, you would think after 13 years he has me served with papers he would show maybe he is afraid he is going to lose his 2 year old because I was a stack of stuff on him last thing was assault on a female about 5 months ago even his girlfriend mother of his two year old has assault charges on her they are slap happy with each other. So what I am saying is if he doesn't show is this going to be dropped?