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ladym_90
May 21, 2012, 09:46 PM
Me and my Boyfriend been together for 3 yrs and I have caught him cheating plenty of times. On top of that he has 2 kids with me. We had an agreement that I will be the at home parent, and he will pay the bills, all our names is on the lease. Now he want to kick me, and the kids out. My friend told me to take him to court, and they will order him to pay the bills, until I get on my feet since we got a written agreement. What should I do?
WisperWill70
May 22, 2012, 01:11 AM
Me and my Boyfriend been together for 3 yrs and I have caught him cheating plenty of times on top of that he has 2kids on me..we had an agreement that I will be the at home parent and he will pay the bills all our names is on the lease now he want to kick me bd the kids out..my friend tld me to take him to court and they will order him to pay the bills intill I get on my feet since we got a written agreement..what should I do?
If he signed an agreement you should talk to a lawyer and see what your recourse is in this situation. You should also focus on getting child support. If your name is on the lease he may not be able to "throw you out" but you should think twice about staying in such a situation and see what you can do about getting him sign a document making him responsible for the lease/payment of the place. Things like this often seem to get better... but they really don't! Obviously you keep inviting him back into your life in spite of his negligent behaviour and cheating! Chances are he will go back on his tantrum in some form or another - don't let him back in, it's time for you to move on with your life and be strong for you and your little ones!
ScottGem
May 27, 2012, 06:34 PM
If you are on the lease, he can't kick you out. But you can't kick him out. You have equal rights to the unit. On the other hand, since you are not married, you can't file for divorce, You can file for child support. I strongly suggest you consult an attorney.
AK lawyer
May 27, 2012, 07:46 PM
... Now he want to kick me, and the kids out. ...
I assume that, by "kick out", you mean a demand on his part that you leave. Simply say "no".