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pk5
May 21, 2012, 04:13 PM
I am at a complete loss as to what to do or even how to approach this issue
Any longer. My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over two years. We met on an online dating site. I was very new to the whole dating scene and had just started divorce proceedings from a 18 year marriage. I never posted nude photos or anything inappropriate. I was just completely blind to the world of Web Cam Dating sites. I met and fell in love with the man I now live with and over time we have moved in together. I have free access to his computer and use it all the time. I have come across nude photos of old girlfriends though. First he said he just talked to them on the web, then he admitted he met up with them, and then cleaning one day I found photos he had taken. I have asked him to delete the ones from the computer and he said he is not sure how, even though he is a computer operater, and he took the photos I found and put them in a drawer. I feel like we are both in our 50's and I don't want to waste my time if he can't let go of old relationships. I thought maybe this is what older men hold on to to make them feel young since the women were like 20 years youner.

Fr_Chuck
May 21, 2012, 07:28 PM
Are they saved in the computer memory ? Or are they on some web site online ?

Personally my wife would "opps" and my computer would be about 100 pieces if I had nude photos of old girlfriends. If I merely had a few photos of old girl friends saved, she would know they were just memories, heck I am still face book friends with a old girlfriend.

Fr_Chuck
May 21, 2012, 07:28 PM
Are they saved in the computer memory ? Or are they on some web site online ?

Personally my wife would "opps" and my computer would be about 100 pieces if I had nude photos of old girlfriends. If I merely had a few photos of old girl friends saved, she would know they were just memories, heck I am still face book friends with a old girlfriend.