I have a good job in New York where I presently live am planning to get married and join my spouse in New Jersey while I come to New York every day for my job. Is it possible?

Possible? Millions of people commute to a job in NY daily.

I guess I question why do you think it is a issue, how for will be the drive or is there train or transit for you to use.

I mean if you move 500 miles away, most likely you can't drive it every day, but many people drive 1 to 2 hours a day to get to work.

I don't have any problem with the driving. Where I work in NY state is closer to where me & my spouse will be living in New Jersey which is another state. But my concern is that, is it okay by law?

This is the US, there is no law about where you can work or live.

I don't have any problem with the driving. Where I work in NY state is closer to where me & my spouse will be living in New Jersey which is another state. But my concern is that, is it okay by law?

Again, millions of people commute daily across state lines. Why would think there would be any legal issue about it?

May I ask, are you recently moved to the US from another country. I know the US is large and often US states remind others of nations in some countries.