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jo12345
May 20, 2012, 08:51 AM
Hello...
Two days ago I had a sexual relation. He was not wearing condom and I am not taking any pills or any kinds of contraceptions.
I was on top of him when he ejaculated. He did not enter me but he ejaculated on my vagina and I have no idea if the sperms were able to get in. and we realized he ejaculates after a minute. It was the day that follows the last day of my period and I am very scared since I do not want to get pregnant.
Moreover today I am having nausea and eating very little but do not know if it because I am scared or because I might be pregnant.
Do you think I might be pregnant? Is there anything I can still do now?

VintageHeart93
May 20, 2012, 09:00 AM
hello....
two days ago i had a sexual relation. he was not wearing condom and i am not taking any pills or any kinds of contraceptions.
i was on top of him when he ejaculated. he did not enter me but he ejaculated on my vagina and i have no idea if the sperms were able to get in. and we realized he ejaculates after a minute. it was the day that follows the last day of my period and i am very scared since i do not want to get pregnant.
Moreover today i am having nausea and eating very little but do not know if it because i am scared or because i might be pregnant.
do you think i might be pregnant? is there anything i can still do now?

Two days? No one can get pregnant that fast. It takes about a week after sex for you to sperm to reach the egg and for you to experience symptoms. You're only feeling these symptoms because you're nervous and scared you might be pregnant. I honestly don't think you are pregnant especially since he wasn't directly inside you, but just be sure wait at least 2 weeks and go take a pregnancy test. In the future you should both be careful. Take some contraceptives.

Wondergirl
May 20, 2012, 09:02 AM
Yes, you could be pregnant. It's unlikely, but possible, since we don't know if sperm traveled anywhere. You wouldn't be feeling any pregnancy symptoms yet (too early). If you miss your next period, take a hpt with first morning urine. Meanwhile, avoid behavior that can result in a pregnancy.

jo12345
May 20, 2012, 09:07 AM
Thank you for your help. Another question: don't yo think it might even be impossible since this was last day of my period? Please say yes...

Wondergirl
May 20, 2012, 09:11 AM
No, it's not impossible. Women have gotten pregnant when having sex during their period and even when using THREE forms of birth control. You didn't use any, so now you have to wait. The only sure birth control method is abstinence.

VintageHeart93
May 20, 2012, 09:15 AM
thank you for your help. another question: don't yo think it might even be impossible since this was last day of my period? please say yes...

I think has something to do with ovulation. Ovulation occurs 2 weeks after your last period on average. That's way I'd advise taking the pregnancy test after those 2 weeks if you still feel uneasy. Fertilization occurs 24 hours after ovulation and sperm has to go through a lot of obstacles to reach the egg. So, in all honesty I don't think it's that likely.. but again just to be sure take a pregnancy test..

DoulaLC
May 20, 2012, 09:41 AM
thank you for your help. another question: don't yo think it might even be impossible since this was last day of my period? please say yes...


It is not impossible, only improbable. While it is not the average time for ovulation, some women will naturally ovulate earlier than others.