Umm, first time doing this LOL

Got a bit of a problem here about this girl, I'll try ease it down so its not too big.

We first ever spoke in February, got to know each other & stuff & decided to marry each other on Facebook ( stupid right but were only 16 )

One night she text me saying " she likes me more than friends " Although we haven't met at this point yet.

So I said, Umm, okay... Pictures Saturday I'll pay cool?

So there we had it, it went not bad but was very awkward the first time but after a while into the date it started getting less awkward.

So after that night when I walked her to her bustop so she could go home it was VERY awkward, didn't kiss only cuddled the whole night.

But I'm not bothered about it at the moment to be honest.

We both didn't text each other after it for 2 days, she then text me saying Miss you.

So that made me happier, Thought she just didn't want to see me no more LOL.

Yea, 2nd night we went out town & just walked about & then sat down somewhere for a while & spoke to each other.

Wasn't awkward at all.

Went great, but didn't kiss.

This is where the problem is now...

When we were texting after the second night she wus acting like really weird? & I also found out she's being texting other boys ( although she is allowed we isn't going out with each other or anything ) usually when we text we don't usually give each other " xxxxxxxx " that stuff but she had put a conversation on her Display picture on BBM speaking to another boy & giving him those " xxxxxxx "

OKAY, I seen that & ill admit, I got pissed.. but c'mon we met twice, always speaking to each other everyday & always happy.

So what I done was this
Didn't speak to her for 5 whole days, & I got a message on my phone saying " I miss you, Wanna see you soon "

So were now speaking again & stuff, But tonight, She done it again & I was like Hmm, Curiouse when we start speaking you try & get me annoyed with other guys.

So I just played along with it & ended the conversation when she said " love you baby " I said love you too.

So I'm kind of starting to realize something, I never spoke to her for 5 days, & she decided to text ME & tell me she misses ME & stuff which means I'v basically been on her mind & that's how I know she wus trying to see if I got annoyed with that other boy again.

But I didn't, I but my tongue & now I'm left with all this tomorrow, knowing deep down I'm really annoyed & angry at her, with the amount of guys she's texting, Even when we were out, Constantly spoke about her exe's & for most of the night on her phone texting. But I don't want her to know I'm annoyed.

Im letting her chase me now, she's always starting conversations with me, & trying her hardest to keep it going.

I appreciate it, but I honestly don't know what to do here, I guess I'm jealous that she's texting other guys, But she tells me all the time I'm the only guy she wants.

I asked her out, & she said I'm just out a relationship so I'm letting time go in before I ask her, & this time it will be face to face.

So thanks for reading this, Any feedback on what to do will honestly be appreciated,

THANKS!

After two dates with you, she can't text and flirt with other guys? (I miss the old days where everybody I dated didn't know about every aspect of my life from FB.)

After two dates with you, she can't text and flirt with other guys? (I miss the old days where everybody I dated didn't know about every aspect of my life from FB.)


I didn't say she can or cannot, I admitted it I wus kind of jealous right, I guess that's my problem, for example you like someone & went out with them & met up & hees always telling you he loves you & stuff, next thing you know hees saying the same thing's to other girls.. its basically the same thing. I know we isn't going out but were basically seeing each other which most of the time leads to a relationship. I understand what you mean personally though, Its just me I suppose.

Since the two of you aren't exclusive (and a-ways away from being exclusive), if I were you, I'd cool my jealousy jets, but ask her out again to find out how things are going with her.

Since the two of you aren't exclusive (and a-ways away from being exclusive), if I were you, I'd cool my jealousy jets, but ask her out again to find out how things are going with her.

Will do, & thank you :3

The cooler and less needy you can be (for yourself respect as well as for her, in front of her), the more interesting you will become.

The cooler and less needy you can be (for your self respect as well as for her, in front of her), the more interesting you will become.

So true, once again thanks !

Keep us informed. (I just adopted you.)

Keep us informed. (I just adopted you.)

LOL Huh?

Cyber adoption -- I want to hear more of your story, what happens next.

cyber adoption -- I wanna hear more of your story, what happens next.

Aww yeah, Ill comment back on this to let you know ;3

Yyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyy yyyyyyy!!

yyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyy yyyyyyy!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Lol :p