PDA

View Full Version : My Best Friend and I Kissed, But...


8707037041698
May 16, 2012, 02:22 PM
So, I'm 14, and I used to live in Georgia, where I had a girlfriend. We went out on and off for about 2 years. We were IN LOVE. So, when I moved away I kind of wanted to start fresh and be with guys, because they are really cute here. So, I was absolutely starting to feel "normal" again, and then this girl moved here. She was quiet and cute. I talked to her and we ended up becoming best friends. We laugh and act immature, but she also talked to me when she was upset or having problems with her boyfriend.

So maybe a month ago we started playing around, like licking each other’s faces and feeling each other’s thighs, AS A JOKE. But we started playing more and more sexually, but she was also still dating her boyfriend who was really upset by us playing. So, about 2 weeks ago, she broke up with her boyfriend and she was like it didn't affect her. So on Monday, we were in class and she was pretending she was about to kiss me. The next day she told me she had a dream about kissing me. So when I got went to bed that night, I had a dream about kissing her. So today, we kissed and she said she enjoyed it. I certainly did, because I've wanted to kiss her all year. The thing is, she doesn't know that I am gay, she just thought we were playing around #or at least that's what I think#... How Do I Let Her Know That I LIKE Her Without Losing My Best Friend?

whyamihorrible
May 16, 2012, 05:56 PM
It seems like if you have been playing with her more and more sexually that you would be more straight than gay. But if you still are into other guys, try going up to her and say *watever her name is* I am gay but I still feel like I have feelings for you. Then go and say something like I really want for us to still be close friends and I hope it doesn't bother you that I'm into guys just a little.

ommi_kosher
May 18, 2012, 03:12 PM
Just treat her like the world let her know she's special to you and that you don't want to lose her sit down and talk to her about it one on one ;)