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snowbunny1996
May 14, 2012, 03:56 PM
OK about 5 months ago I had to run away from my dad's he was mentally abusing me and I lived with my ex boyfriend at the time then I moved to sant john then with my mom in oshawa, now I have to make up my mind about about if I want to move back to sant john or stay in oshawa. The thing is my family is in sant john and my mom is up here and I haven't see eather in 4 years that's to my dad and if I stay up here I fell like I'm loseing my family and or if I leave I fell like I'm losing my mom again. So what should I do?

smoothy
May 14, 2012, 04:01 PM
Funny how every teenager that doesn't get to do what they want when they want calls it mental abuse. When all the parents were doing is making them do what they should be doing and disciplining them.

If there was real abuse occurring you would have called the police and they would have done something.

You did a lot of harm running away with Mr. Perfect... its going to be really hard to repair that damage. What you should have done was NOT run away...

snowbunny1996
May 14, 2012, 05:10 PM
My dad keeped me away from my mom and moms side of the family he never said he loved me and let his girlfriend control me and I didn't run away from my ex he was everything to me and still is I just couldn't let his mom take care of me because she had to kids as it is

snowbunny1996
May 14, 2012, 05:21 PM
And to your knowledge you don't know me and if you did you would have never said what I did my dad treated me like and now you go and say that just because I'm a teen dose not mean I'm a immachour and by the way the cops were called and they helped me get to my moms thank you every much and sorry for the bad spelling I have a lerning disabilaty

Fr_Chuck
May 14, 2012, 05:37 PM
and to ur knowledge u don't know me and if u did u would have never said what i did my dad treated me like and now u go and say that just because im a teen dose not mean im a immachour and btw the cops were called and they helped me get to my moms thank you every much and sorry for the bad spelling i have a lerning disabilaty

So the police took you away from the person who had legal custody of you,

Yea, making up the story as you go along, NO one here will ever help you if you don't tell them the truth and admit some basic facts.

If you are under 18, you have no choice of what to do, you are a run away and legally the police are to return you to the person who has legal custody of you.

It is simple, if anyone else takes you in, they can be charged with a crime of parential interference.

So yes, kids today think they have some right, to do what they want, and not follow instructions, be punished for not obeying.

smoothy
May 14, 2012, 05:42 PM
Yep... Fr-Chuck got that right... and I nailed it right on the head again... check out her other threads... She ran off with Mr. Perfect and has already broken up with him too. AND she's also asking about having kids too... all posted today on separate threads.

I think she's posted here using another Username recently too. Because someone else has made that same quote about a learning disability in the last month or two.

snowbunny1996
May 14, 2012, 05:51 PM
He didn't have foll custody of me thanks

snowbunny1996
May 14, 2012, 05:56 PM
The kid thing I was just asking and about me running away from mr.right I didn't run away from him OK

smoothy
May 14, 2012, 06:00 PM
16 year olds don't think about having kids for no reason...

You ran away from home... you ran away from him too... or did he run away from you? After only 5 months on the lam...