Please, I really need some advice because I just don't know what to think anymore.

Nearly 3 months ago me and this man who were dating on and off for 2 years and a half got into an argument over text message because the last time we went out, I asked if I could see his phone pictures, then he asked me why and I told him I was just curious, he changed conversation so I didn't insist. Then 3 days later I went shopping and he asked me if I could send him a picture of what I had bought, then I replied with a no because he didn't want to show me his phone pictures, and that's when the argument started. I was like, oh you don't want to show me your phone pictures but you do want to be on my stuff, then he said he had no problem with showing me, and I was already upset so I replied saying that it was OK, he didn't have to show me crap because I was nobody anyway. After then he told me "ok you're nobody then."

He didn't text me the next day, so the day after that I texted him telling him "how easy huh, when I'm good, you want to be with me but when i'm bad you run away like always" And he repiled "Is cause I don't understand you, when you're bad you act like i'm trying to attack you so best thing for me to do it let you know your steam."

So I waited a couple of days and he never called or texted me back, so I called and he didn't pick up. I texted him asking if he was using the argument as an excuse to not talk to me anymore and he said "it's no excuse, i've just been concentrating in other things."

That day he told me that was the day I got the hint that it was over. I stopped contacting him, I stopped logging in to the social network where I had him and I have just been trying to move on.

Today for the first time I logged in to the social network where I had him, and I found out he deleted his account.

Every time we broke up, he always told me with words that it was over, but this time he did a 180 on me.
I just don't understand. It's not like I ever cheated on him, I never treated him bad ( like hitting or curssing) it's not like I was always all over his things. That day when I asked to see his pictures, we were waiting for the library to open so I was bored and I didn't think it was going to be a damn deal.

And no, it is not because he's a young stud, we are 6 years apart, he is 28 almost 29. I just don't understand his behavior.

I just don't understand. It's not like I ever cheated on him, I never treated him bad ( like hitting or curssing) it's not like I was always all over his things. That day when I asked to see his pictures, we were waiting for the library to open so I was bored and I didn't think it was going to be a damn deal.

It's funny, because I read your post and immediately understood why he's no longer interested.

You asked to see his pictures, claim that you were just bored, but then later on, you turned it into a fight. In fact, you made it a huge deal.

I'd bet that this isn't the first time you've done that. Maybe he's just tired of having that in his life. Fighting about stupid things is just not worth it.

Also, you've been on again and off again. There has to be a reason for that. I'd stay off this time, and find someone you're more compatible with.

It's funny, because I read your post and immediately understood why he's no longer interested.

You asked to see his pictures, claim that you were just bored, but then later on, you turned it into a fight. In fact, you made it a huge deal.

I'd bet that this isn't the first time you've done that. Maybe he's just tired of having that in his life. Fighting about stupid things is just not worth it.

Also, you've been on again and off again. There has to be a reason for that. I'd stay off this time, and find someone you're more compatible with.

I didn't make it a huge deal he did. But I guess he had something to hide.

Actually, from what you wrote, you did make it into a big deal. He didn't want to show you his pictures so that should have just been the end of it... however, you had to cause a problem when he asked you to send him a picture of something you bought. He didn't ask to invade your privacy... just wanted a picture of something you bought. Then you turned it into a big deal. At least that's what I see from what you wrote.

I have to guess that this wasn't the first time that something like this happened and he probably got tired of it all.

But still that was no excuse for him to leave that way.

But I guess women are always going to be known as the "bad ones" of the story. I get it.

Seriously... from what you wrote in your original question, you did come off as the "bad one". Maybe that's not really how it is but that's what I got from reading it... and obviously, Alty got the same impression.

I'm a girl and I got the same thing, you may not have made it a big deal at the time, but turning it into an argument later when he requested a picture of what you bought was essentially making it a big deal.
The "bad one" is always the other guy when you talk to most folks.

me and this man who were dating on and off for 2 years and a half... Every time we broke up, he always told me with words that it was over, but this time he did a 180 on me.
I just don't understand.

Getting dumped is nothing new, but he just changed it up this time. Results are still the same though, you guys are off again. Its not about a picture, its about you guys are always finding ways to be off.

Maybe this is the last time. How long were the other offs? This one shouldn't come as a surprise given your history, but somebody is doing something wrong!

Let it go, and get someone who can handle your unforgiving temper. He can't. Not for long anyway!

Maybe this is the last time. How long were the other offs? This one shouldn't come as a surprise given your history, but somebody is doing something wrong!

Let it go, and get someone who can handle your unforgiving temper. He can't. Not for long anyway!

I do admit I had been a little upset lately but because we were not going out much anymore, when we made plans he would forget or cancel.

I understand than this time is for real. If it's not meant to be there's nothing I can do. It still hurts though.

Yeah break ups suck for whatever reason, so leave him alone.

But still that was no excuse for him to leave that way.

But I guess women are always going to be known as the "bad ones" of the story. I get it.

Just want to point out that I'm a woman. Trust me, if you I had read your post and thought he was to blame, I would have jumped all over it. But that's not what I read in your post.