I have lost my verginity when I was 19 yrs old and I has done 1000 time sex with that guy. But he broke the relationship.what to do I'm planning to get married I don't want he come to know this thing. Please suggest

There is nothing we can suggest but that you be honest with your fiancée

So you hope that no one that knows about your ex tells him, So what do you want, are you planning on lying to him about it.

[QUOTE=Fr_Chuck;3115410]so you hope that no one that knows about your ex tells him, So what do you want, are you planning on lying to him about it.[/Q

So what you suggest should I tell him that I lost my verginity.


There is some medicine where I can cover up of this.

I am sorry there isn't any type of medication that will reset your virginity. Even if there were it wouldn't erase the mental and emotional experience you have.

Are there cultural or religious reasons for you to be concerned about his reaction to you not being a virgin? Have you or anyone else told him you are a virgin? Has the subject been brought up?

Honesty is usually the best way to handle these situations. There are too many ways for him to learn the truth later. Secrets have a way of telling themselves.

... sorry but I have to say, if you are so ignorant of what sex is, perhaps you are not ready for it? You should have learned these things years ago.

Show some maturity... you slept with a guy a lot of times... just be honest about it. You haven't been a virgin for a long time.. and you will never be one again. Nothing will upset a guy more than you telling him a HUGE lie like that.

Nothing is LESS attractive in a woman than being deceptive and being a liar. And lies have a way of being found out eventually. And they will come out... they always do. And a little lie kept for a number of years will become a huge lie given enough time.

That's why honesty is the best policy.

And if this was a religious/cultural thing... then she knew the consequences before she spread her legs to that guy and accepted the responsibility for it.