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djud
May 9, 2012, 10:29 AM
So here is what happened we where 1 month together and that's when I heard she was talking with an other guy a bit more than friend talk I whould say... so I asked her what's up with this guy and she said oh I don't even like him I only want you and its not my faut I'm just being friendly . After my friends found out they said she wants him and I was all sad and stuff.. after 3-4 days I still felt something was wrong so I said to her are you sure that everything you said back then still count and she said my god I want you and you should have believed me when I 1st told you so I was like OK I'm sorry and now I believe you.. A week has passed we were OK kissing etc saying we love each other and 1 afternoon she text me and started pointing the fact that she really likes me and I whould be good as a friend, after a quick conversation she said that we should better be apart for some time cause several things have happened and she said she loves me and she really likes me.. after that I had many question unsolved so I asked her what does several things mean.. she hasn't aswered me yet cause she is at a lesson or something tomorrow I will find her and talk in private what should I say ? And do ? I like her... whouldn die for her I know it sound egoistic but I'm heartbroken and I don't want my friends saying oh dude I told you so and things like that plus I don't like being dumped :S

Homegirl 50
May 9, 2012, 12:13 PM
It has only been a month and she is no longer in to you. Maybe she has found the other guy more interesting, or maybe she does not want to be attached.
Don't sweat this. Let her go and move on.

Darkangelxx
May 10, 2012, 06:31 PM
Yeah I agree with homegirl, go find another gorl thers plenty out there who will love youu, so just love on n find somebody else

Noforumnames
May 17, 2012, 11:26 AM
Do you guys think he hasn't thought of moving on? Have you guys ever been through this situation before?

You have gotten too attached too soon.. if there's any way to salvage this I would say it is by letting her know you like her and giving her some space... you can't force her to be with you so give her some space and let her wonder if she still loves you or not.. if she does then she'll come around. If she did a few weeks ago then it can't just die so soon..