I'm 21 years old, my boyfriend and I have been together for more than 2 years now, I love him with all my heart. We have had our ups and downs, but it seems that lately its all downs...


I'm in the army and I am deploying the beginning of next year, I'm trying to distance myself for several reasons,

1) he has cheated on me numerous times
2) he's always angry with me for one reason or another
3) I have cheated on him, just once but it still doesn't make it right, I also didn't cheat until after he did
4) he cheated on me with one of my supposed best friends
5) one of the girls he cheated on me with had the clap and he almost got it
6) because I'm deploying and will be gone for a whole year
7) because I want him to be happy, even if that means with someone else



I love him with all my heart. Should I stay with him or should I leave him?

No, what is the point of staying in such an unhealthy relationship?

Leave, for all the reasons you cited, they are all good each and everyone all by itself.

I agree with the other posts. Maybe when you are back from deployment you could meet up and see how you feel? If not, I suggest you focus on your career and make the time you have prior deployment fun :)