Ok this is rather long winded so please be patient. Before Christmas one of my friends of over a year told me she had a crush on me. I liked her too but I never said anything because she had a boyfriend. 2 weeks later she finished with her boyfriend and apparently I was part of the reason for this.

Anyway I told her I liked her too and we started to get into each other more and started dating and then a few weeks later she told me she was getting back with her ex which left me devastated and I stopped talking to her. Then about 3 weeks later she text me to tell me I was making her doubt her relationship with her boyfriend then broke up with him again.

A few weeks afterwards we started dating and we both admitted we still like each other and acted like an actual couple when we were out but she said she still needed time.

Anyway last week we talked and she said she still likes me but she doesn't want a relationship of any sort because she wants to get college out of the way with and just wants us to be friends and forget about a relationship until after college and then we'll see what happens. I really like her and I do want a relationship but I don't know what to do until we finish college.

You date others, have a great time and see if you even want to date her after college. What if you find a better girl, and I hope you do because this one handles her business rather messy to be taken serious, guy!

You can do better than one who jumps back and forth between guys like a frog.

You get a life is what you do,and leave her to lead hers.

I'm guessing some months down the line you won't be wanting a relationship with this young lady...

It seems like she is unhappy with a relationship, but not willing to completely cut ties, however, you do NOT want to be the rebound on this one. You should leave her alone, be her friend, but nothing romantic, not until she is over him COMPLETELY at least. Which WILL take time. Move on for now, see other people, do not put your life on hold for her misery.