Hi friends,

My husband has not trimmed or shaved his pubes since last 3 months, I suppose. It can be less than it also but my query is regarding the maximum size to which the pubes can grow. I always insist that he should trim these extra hair around the penis, but he ignores it, more so after I have become pregnant, rather we had physical relationship since 2 months before my delivery (of child), but then we had less of sex and he had more of the pubes as he stopped trimming, and now as I underwent operation for child-birth and we can't do sex for at least 3 months, he has stopped the pube-trim thing absolutely. His pubes are grown one inch almost, or 1 1/4 inches, but I fear, if he does not trim it now, it will double and multiply. I have never seen his trims going beyond a milimetre earlier, but now when it is in inches, it scare me. Can someone tell me as to what can be the maximum size to which his pubes can grow (if he does not trim), so that I may prepare myself mentally for tolerating the same.

Or, what can I do to make him get rid of these?

Sorry you need to perhaps get counseling on your obsession. It is his hair, and he has a right to grow it the way he wants it. How he dresses, how he does any of his hair, is his choice,

He should not be requiring you to dress, keep your hair in certain styles.

What if he would not want sex with you unless you had hair ? Sorry it is not your choice, and you told him what you like and perhaps he does not like the itching, the way it makes the stubble and to be honest all of the trouble with shaving it.

Fr_Chuck,

I am grateful to you for the instant reply, and you might be right. My question here is about how much growth will happen if he does not trim it ever. I mean - what is the maximum length, which the pubes can grow up to? Again, I inform you that it is about 2 1/2 or 3 months since he has trimmed it and the size now is about 1 inch or 1 1/4 inches.

I agree with FrChuck - this appears to be an obsession on your part. The question has pretty much already been asked and answered (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/beauty/husband-does-not-trim-pubes-any-more-654285.html). I realize there were also threads about underam hair.

What am I not understanding about Indian culture?