I started sleeping with this woman a couple weeks ago. We were seeing each other once a week for almost three months prior.

First time sleeping together didn't go very well.

Second time was much better but I don't ever know how she wants it. I don't know for how long. Im almost in a loss as to how long I'm allowed to take her for... I would love to spend an hour in the room with her, but these first two times don't really total more then 25 minutes.

I believe she may be beginning to look else where just in case I won't be able to satisfy her.

I think the situation prior to the bedroom doesn't suit me well... I like spontatneous sex, I like lots of sex, I don't like having sex only when the movie is over or if the movie is boring.

Im 31 and have tremendous capabilites in the bedroom it is night and day if its only after a movie or so dragged out through a bull routine prior to calling it a night adult style...

I need help