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badez123
May 4, 2012, 12:12 PM
Ok guys so, I have been in a long distance relationship for 7 months, we have had our problems but we always faced them together and fought against the distance, but my jealousy and curiosity raised. I was asking too many questions about with who she was texting and which friend she was going to visit or which friend was going to visit her. Which left her thinking I didn't trust her at all, but the fact is that I didn't trust the others.

I trust her and I know she would never cheat on me... however in the last weeks of our relationship things got worse, and I guess it was mainly my fault because of the curiosity and too many questions, and she has been texting with her ex boyfriend (her first bf) and they are pretty close friends. Although he always loved her, but she loved me so he never had a chance. But these last days she has told him about our problems and he took the chance and told her fake stuff about me, like: he might be doing this or that, he doesn't love you, or else he'd not be so curious.

And she's a bit immature, so she fell for his "angel talk". And once we had a little argument, and she broke up with me. The next day she was with him (she had put a FB relationship even though they have not met after me and her broke up)

3 days after she apologized to me, and told me everything he was saying, and me and her got back together. We are back together for 4-5 days but still she didn't break up with him, and she won't tell me the reason. I didn't ask more because I don't want to seem curious. She just asked me for time to break up, but she won't tell me the reason yet.

Also her parents and her "bf" don't have a clue that me and her are back together. What should I do? I'm 18, she's 17, and I love her so much :( I don't want to lose her... she said she wanted to marry me and have kids with me, but she asked me for time to break up with him. I just don't know why :(

Homegirl 50
May 4, 2012, 12:17 PM
Sounds like she is playing you both. This is a 7 month long distant relationship. Have you two ever met? Have you two ever spent any time with each other? You may want to get out of this while you still have some dignity.

talaniman
May 4, 2012, 09:40 PM
Love makes you blind.
Love can make you foolish.
Love can confuse you.
Love can also make you do weird things that defy logic.
Love can make you believe anything.

In your case, all of the above. Sorry guy, this LDR on line is not a good one to be in.