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patricia84
May 4, 2012, 12:56 AM
I went on a date and everything went great and seemed we hit it off right away. He txt me everyday and we would meet up once a week to spend time together or stay the night with him. He told me he really liked me and wanted to get to know me better and I agreed. We only dated for about 2-3 months but just trying to get to know each other but we did have sex every time we saw each other. He lives about 1:45hrs away from me so it was a little dificult to c him sometimes. When I went to his house he told me he didn't what sex he just wanted to cuddle with me because he respected me and wanted something special to grow. Well time went by and I felt I really liked him not just like but love him, but one day I was just kiding with him about him not txting me goodmorning anymore and stuff and he said its not even like that and I said yes it is... then he said fine then and I responded fine... I was stupid enough to post on fb "u either want me or u don't I don't want to waist my time anymore" well I messed up because he read and thought I was mad at him, I didn't even have a chance to txt him that I was just kidding when I see he posted that I should stop complaining crying and wyning and if I want something to get up and get it and not wait for it to fall from the sky... when I saw that I txt him and said I knew he was saying that twards me and it wasn't cool, he didn't txt back. I went out that night with my friends and I had invited him the day before but since he was mad he didn't go. My frind send a messege on my fb saying she had a guy for me to go with and she said I would hit it off with him, I said no I'm to shy and not intrested, but he read it all. That night after going out I was a little drunk but not that much and I txted him to meet me there and get a hotel to stay the night because we had already done that a few weeks ago and it was fun. He didn't answer again... he posts on fb again saying his really lonely and I txt him again saying I LOVE YOU AND ILL NEVER SAY IT AGAIN I PROMISE! I was so upset but he didn't answer again... two days later I txt him saying it all started because I was kidding with him and I'm sorry it all went the wrong way and after what he said about me I didn't bother saying I was jk anymore... he hasn't answered any of my txtz or messgs and I deleted him from fb... what can I do? I miss him so much I think about him all day and I'm imbaresed because I told him I love him... please help me! Should I just move on and take this as a lesson?

FirstChair
May 4, 2012, 03:51 AM
So let me get this, you were married for 11 years becoming a bride at 17 years old? A year has passed since being single so you are now 29 years old? Well I find that hard to believe.

So you asked, "What can I do?"... Well, you already did it... YOU deleted him from the cyber world of Facebook! Who knows... maybe if you send him another 'Friend Request' he'll let you write on his wall again. Are you sure you're not 13 going on 29? Go to bed... alone.