I'm a older guy 30 and she is 23 we have been hanging out for about 6 months and she did say in the beginning she didn't want a relationship but as we hangout more we had sex she also started to say things like "we would be great together" and "no one would believe that I took a shower at your place" and a bunch of other little things like that. All of this got me thinking that I do like this girl so I told her I really like her and would like more. Then she was a jerk about it so I told her that it's to hard for me to be around her so I asked her to stop calling and texting me. Now she keeps calling me (every other day more then when we were just friends) she still wants to hangout with and is showing up where I hangout, she will also blow me off when she is there but will keep texting me and if she has a couple drinks she will try to kiss me (places she usually won't go if I ask her). So what I'm asking is she just mad because I can't hangout with her or does she possibly want more but needs more time? Also she lives out of town and when she come into I'm not really sure if she is using me for a place to get ready to go party but when she does party she always comes back to my place unless we get in a fight and she hardly comes over without her friend too. Sorry wrote this on a phone

I think she does like you but doesent know it yet,she either doesn't want to lose your friendship, or she does want more just not now, but she's not using you because if she's phoning you often then she obviously cares about you