B-rice
Apr 29, 2012, 04:21 PM
Okay here it goes. Me and my ex girlfriend were dating for 7 months and she broke up with me because of my mood swings. At the time I was really stressed out about a lot of things family, money, ex. When we first met it was like we clicked like right away. I felt the spark when you know that this girl is something very special. I loved her to pieces and would have done anything for her, but anyway we had our moments of arguing and not getting along, and not agreeing with the same things.
I said some things to her that she didn't like and it made her upset and not think of me as the same person who she fell in love with, which really hurts cause I never meant for this to happen. So when we broke up I was heart broken, she broke up with me so it is very difficult and its my first love so there's a lot going through my mind right now. So after two weeks we started talking again and I asked her to talk. So she comes over and we were both upset, But then what I didn't understand was that she asked me if I wanted to have sex which is weird and I still don't understand why she asked me?
And then after that she stopped answering my texts and calls so I was getting a little frustrated that she was not answering me and just ignoring me like that. I never meant anything to her which hurts. So then soon after she starts dating again and tells me that? And I said "you really got over me fast huh?", and she says " I'm only dating so I can get over you". What does that mean?
So I'm very confused of what she trying to do. Is she trying to just hurt me and make me jealous or did she never care about our relationship at all?? And another thing that is really sad is that her friend told me one day that she doesn't want us to be together? So pretty much she is listening to her friends first and they are making some of her decisions for her?
Sorry for it being very long I would really appreciate any kind of help with this cause I'm very confused of why she won't talk to me and give me some closure? I truly care about this girl and she is breaking my heart more and more each day. I think she is doing this on purpose just to hurt my feelings but I need some other opinions Thanks for reading :)
I said some things to her that she didn't like and it made her upset and not think of me as the same person who she fell in love with, which really hurts cause I never meant for this to happen. So when we broke up I was heart broken, she broke up with me so it is very difficult and its my first love so there's a lot going through my mind right now. So after two weeks we started talking again and I asked her to talk. So she comes over and we were both upset, But then what I didn't understand was that she asked me if I wanted to have sex which is weird and I still don't understand why she asked me?
And then after that she stopped answering my texts and calls so I was getting a little frustrated that she was not answering me and just ignoring me like that. I never meant anything to her which hurts. So then soon after she starts dating again and tells me that? And I said "you really got over me fast huh?", and she says " I'm only dating so I can get over you". What does that mean?
So I'm very confused of what she trying to do. Is she trying to just hurt me and make me jealous or did she never care about our relationship at all?? And another thing that is really sad is that her friend told me one day that she doesn't want us to be together? So pretty much she is listening to her friends first and they are making some of her decisions for her?
Sorry for it being very long I would really appreciate any kind of help with this cause I'm very confused of why she won't talk to me and give me some closure? I truly care about this girl and she is breaking my heart more and more each day. I think she is doing this on purpose just to hurt my feelings but I need some other opinions Thanks for reading :)