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Lovealwayshurts
Apr 28, 2012, 12:41 PM
My boyfriend broke up with me last night after talking for three hours with his friends. I really like him and have been dating him for awhile now. His friends don't like me and I feel like he was pressured into breaking up with me. He won't listen to anything I have to say and I just want to talk to him and I don't know how. It doesn't make sense because we were fine yesterday afternoon and then he broke up with me at night. I don't know why. I really like him but he won't listen. How do I know if he still likes me and how can I get him to listen to me?

DoulaLC
Apr 28, 2012, 03:21 PM
Unfortunately you can't make him listen. I am so sorry that you are hurting from this. Did he give you any sort of explanation for breaking up with you? If he was influenced by his friends, you are likely better off although you may not realize it just yet. Better to have a boyfriend who will think for himself.

Do you know why his friends don't like you? Is there anything that happened that may have caused them to feel this way? For example, had you ever mistreated your boyfriend?

All you can do is wait and see if he changes his mind and contacts you. In the meantime, spend time with your family and friends for support. If he does contact you at a later time, you will then have to decide if you want to take the chance of going through this again with him or if it might be better to just move on.

Lovealwayshurts
Apr 29, 2012, 07:02 AM
The reason his friends don't like me is because they think that he could do better. He said the reason he broke up with me was because I changed but he won't tell me how. He wants to be friends still but I still really like him. I don't know what to do.

waranya
Dec 2, 2012, 03:44 AM
I think all he did means he doesn't care what you think , he didn't even give you a clear explanation why he dumped you. Maybe he's confused. But believe me if he regret , he'll turn back and change sth with himself. If he doesn't. Get real and continue live your life, find someone worth your love :)