Y don't my husband want to have sex with me?, I have been married for 8 years now , and my husband has no sex drive what so ever, I'm lucky if we have sex 10 times a year, I have had a talk to him over and over again, we'll end up making love on that night we talk and then nothing for weeks, it has hit me so hard, even down to me thinking that its me not him , I have been to the doctors to see if all is all right down below, and that I have been told is 100% OK, then I thought maybe he scared to have another child, so I got that sorted to , so now there's never any chance in that, and still nothing changes, again talk to him , but it ends up in huge fight and he walks out or go's to another room, back two months ago I had a boob job, not just for him but for me to noin this would make me happy in myself, and hopeful why turn him on, but again only this week same conversation happened again, he don't want me at all,, I work full time , he works full time , see the children for 2 hours when we get home,, and then from 7 time is ours, then he would open a book or watch a film, I have came down from upstair dressed all sexy and waalkin in front of him' he looked at me and said, ''do you mind I'm trying to watch this'' omg that hit me like a brick! But I just don't understand as I have been told by so many people that I'm a very good looking woman, and he's a lucky man, but he just don't fancy me no more,,