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Apr 26, 2012, 08:12 PM
Yesterday, 2 of my co-workers got into a fight. (I just use the name Miss A and Miss B). This morning when I got to work, Miss B wanted to talk to me. So we sat down in a room and she started telling me how the fight got started. I just listened to what she had to say and didn't make any comments because I don't want to get involved. I thought that it's OK to let her vent it out. Then she started telling me that Miss A had bad mouthed about me to her. When I heard that I was really upset and hurt. Because all these years at work, I thought that Miss A is my friend, we been working in the same dept. For over 20 years. Although few years ago, I found out that she had badmouthed about me, but I put that behind me and carried on with our friendship. Since that time, I have kept a distance from her, not as close as we used to.
I was really upset and hurt, I felt betrayed by Miss A. I had talked to my supervisor about it. My supervisor told me that she and the manager knew about that Miss A had badmouthed about me and already had a talk with Miss A.
I'm not sure what to do cause I'm still mad at Miss A, don't feel like talking to her anymore other than work related stuff. But we work in the same dept.
I wished that Miss B hadn't dragged me into this and hadn't told me about what Miss A badmouthed me about. I'd rather be in the dark than to know so much... Can anyone give me some advice how to deal with Miss A ? Thanks
I was really upset and hurt, I felt betrayed by Miss A. I had talked to my supervisor about it. My supervisor told me that she and the manager knew about that Miss A had badmouthed about me and already had a talk with Miss A.
I'm not sure what to do cause I'm still mad at Miss A, don't feel like talking to her anymore other than work related stuff. But we work in the same dept.
I wished that Miss B hadn't dragged me into this and hadn't told me about what Miss A badmouthed me about. I'd rather be in the dark than to know so much... Can anyone give me some advice how to deal with Miss A ? Thanks