Hi. My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 years now. We are in a long distance relationship, she's abroad. But we constantly keep in touch. The problem is, so is her ex boyfriend. She made another account in Facebook only for her ex and the relationship status is: MARRIED.

During our first year, she was sweet and full of love for me. We were happy, talked about our future, kids, build a home and get married. However, the previous months were hurtful, I found out that she has been talking with her ex and he keeps calling her. We live together, by the way. Sometimes, when she's in her mom's house, they talked over the phone, I know it. Now, she keeps telling me that she loves me and only me and excited to have a future together.

She also lied by saying that she is not communicating with her ex. But when I checked the other Facebook account, she writes on his "i love you, hon, can't wait to be with you"!! What's this? I don't understand this. I didn't confront her yet.

Please help. I love her so much but this is too much. This is the 2nd time, with the same guy! And what's worst, my girlfriend is the one chasing the guy!!

By the way, we USED to live together from the start of our relationship. She went abroad last month.

I know it sucks but if she really cared about you she wouldn't be looking at other guys or going completely out of her way to be with someone else. Think about it, she is saying she loves someone else and is lying in your face. That's not love and that's not someone you want to be with or married to. My advice is to break it off and be strong this kind of thing is very hard especially with emotioins but you need to be strong and not be taken advantage of

I think I would dump this lying cheater, and disappear from her life. I mean who stays with some one like this? Break up over her Facebook account and be done with it... forever. Then you don't have to listen to more lies.

I would dump this girl if I were in your situation. As hard as that may be, it is probably for the best.

Do you think I should give another chance? I've already gave her a second chance, you think a 3rd one is just too much? You know the saying: Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice shame on me... I don't know, I'm hurting real bad right now. I didn't blame her the first time she cheated because I took her for granted and I was the one who said sorry and promised to be a better guy but after a few months, she did it again. I'm so confuse...

I know she's torn between her present and her past too...

Harshness Warning

There is no excuse for cheating! She has cheated twice, She is cheating NOW. That's not confusing at all!

Its okay to be hurt, but not FOOLISH!!

That's as nice as I can get!

Yeah! You guys are right! I have to be strong and learn to respect myself! Hell, I'm going out with my friends and have some fun! To forget her. I will break up with her!

It's going to be hard, it's going to be painful. I'd rather end it now than end it later where it would hurt more.

You need to back away if she still has feelings for the ex, no reason to stick around for that type of drama.