GalioPT
Apr 24, 2012, 07:09 PM
Hello, a week ago my girlfriend broke up with me, using the reason "I don't feel the same way I used too". And now only wants to be friends.
However I still love her and I feel that she still does too. We talk to each other every day, I can see that she has some "impulses" sometimes as if she wants to kiss me, but as soon I lean in she "runs" away and changes topic. Also she still sleeps with 2 teddy bears I gave her. The next day when we broke up I saw the teddy and I saw tear marks on it.
Also she is a person that had depression for a long time and has been taking anti-depression pills for quite a few years, though now her mom started to reduce until it stopped. (few months later the breakup happened).
I think the depression is hiding her feelings, however her mother doesn't believe it and she says that her daughter is not in a depression because she is getting good grades at school.
She didn't fall in love in another guy, she didn't get bored of me. I even talked with her today and she said, I'm feeling sad and I don't know why. I think she is sad because we broke up and her "heart" is the that always shows the real face, while she thinks she doesn't like me anymore.
It was just bang and she lost her feelings, even Sunday we still had sex and well we only have sex when we feel 100% OK with each other. We are not like "eh lets do it" we only do it because it's a way to show our feelings to each other. Then that next Wednesday is when it happened.
She is 16 years old, and I'm 18. I don't want to get over her because I love her too much and she was my first love, and because I know that she still feels something for me.
What should I do? Both of us still live with our parents.
However I still love her and I feel that she still does too. We talk to each other every day, I can see that she has some "impulses" sometimes as if she wants to kiss me, but as soon I lean in she "runs" away and changes topic. Also she still sleeps with 2 teddy bears I gave her. The next day when we broke up I saw the teddy and I saw tear marks on it.
Also she is a person that had depression for a long time and has been taking anti-depression pills for quite a few years, though now her mom started to reduce until it stopped. (few months later the breakup happened).
I think the depression is hiding her feelings, however her mother doesn't believe it and she says that her daughter is not in a depression because she is getting good grades at school.
She didn't fall in love in another guy, she didn't get bored of me. I even talked with her today and she said, I'm feeling sad and I don't know why. I think she is sad because we broke up and her "heart" is the that always shows the real face, while she thinks she doesn't like me anymore.
It was just bang and she lost her feelings, even Sunday we still had sex and well we only have sex when we feel 100% OK with each other. We are not like "eh lets do it" we only do it because it's a way to show our feelings to each other. Then that next Wednesday is when it happened.
She is 16 years old, and I'm 18. I don't want to get over her because I love her too much and she was my first love, and because I know that she still feels something for me.
What should I do? Both of us still live with our parents.