I am an Indian brought up in India and I have lived in oz for the past 18 years and married for 18 years. I was bought up to make my marriage work but lately I am so tired of trying I want to walk out. We have 2 wonderful boys, my parents adore him, we a successful business in many words we r blessed but I still feel I am missing something. I have told him over and over again as to what I want I know now he tunes out. If it not about his friends or sports it doesn't matter anymore. We used to go out for dinners and night outs just us all the time. Nowadays if I tell him it's like wants the point? Let's drink at home. Our teenage boys and the running around for them takes up uour time. We also used to have a active sex life. We used to do it at least 5 times a week now we r lucky if we do it 1 times a month. I can't talk to him about things anymore as he gets depressed and then takes the car and storms out of the house driving like a mad man. He is 41 this year and I am 37 I don't have the patience anymore to sugar coat every thing I have to say to him. I am losing it. When I work I can't wait to be home and when I am at home I just want to run away. I just need somebody to talk to?

This is a Q and A site, not a blog. You need to speak to a counsellor, clergyperson, trusted friend, someone who will listen and not judge.

If the marriage is over you need to leave.