We where well into the adoption when our marriage hit a crisis. I Believe in marriage and families staying together so when my husband agreed to go to counceling and do everything in his power to work things through with me I let him adopt my son. 2 days later he left the house and a month later he left the state for 7 months. Now he is back and causeing nothing but trouble he calls me cussing all the time he has threatened me. He has a new girl friend who has 2 cps cases against her for not takeing care of her own childred. It seems like he is just holding my son over me. I have made a huge mistake is there anyway to undo the adoption?

Go back ASAP to the attorney who did the case for you and see if he can find a reason to ask for it to be over turned, But normally no

You have to file for child custody and file for child support.

I have talked to her about it she says we could maybe try fraud that she wants to find an example case but she is busy and its been over a month and since we talked thank-you