kmargothp
Apr 23, 2012, 01:35 AM
Hi,
I was only 17 when my dad left us for another woman and that was 8 years ago. I have 5 siblings all younger than me. The youngest was only a baby when he left. I still have 3 minor siblings. We keep on asking my dad for child support and he gives at least 500 to 1000 a month (sometimes its every 4 to 6 months) which is not enough since the 3 kids are studying and two of them are going to college. My mom is not working as she is a full time mom to my siblings since they are still young. I am the one giving extra money to my mother. My dad is claiming he can't do much about the money he is sending since he is "sick/ill". But he can't give me any diagnosis of his sickness. He won't work but we know that he has a small store together with his concubine. My dad's family are greedy when it comes to money. They are keeping us away from getting any money from the house we were living in before (since we transferred from manila to cavite and had our house in manila rented to a different person and the house is owned by my paternal grandfather). That rent money should be able to help us get by but my dad won't do anything about it. He is just content about his life now with his mistress. We know where they live and we have pictures of them being and living together. He is just plain happy with what he has while my mom is struggling with the finances. He even cursed my other sister when we tried to talk to him regarding the situation. Can we file for any child support coming from him? Even if he is not working but he has other resources such as his store and the house we lived before? Can we also file for Anti violence against women & children since he cursed my sister and we have a full recording of it?
I am desperate to help my mom about our family and all I can think of is going through legal matters to sort this out.
Also can you advise me of any Law firm that offers cheap or possibly pro bono on this kind of case? We don't have enough money to proceed but I really want to.
Sorry for the long message.
I was only 17 when my dad left us for another woman and that was 8 years ago. I have 5 siblings all younger than me. The youngest was only a baby when he left. I still have 3 minor siblings. We keep on asking my dad for child support and he gives at least 500 to 1000 a month (sometimes its every 4 to 6 months) which is not enough since the 3 kids are studying and two of them are going to college. My mom is not working as she is a full time mom to my siblings since they are still young. I am the one giving extra money to my mother. My dad is claiming he can't do much about the money he is sending since he is "sick/ill". But he can't give me any diagnosis of his sickness. He won't work but we know that he has a small store together with his concubine. My dad's family are greedy when it comes to money. They are keeping us away from getting any money from the house we were living in before (since we transferred from manila to cavite and had our house in manila rented to a different person and the house is owned by my paternal grandfather). That rent money should be able to help us get by but my dad won't do anything about it. He is just content about his life now with his mistress. We know where they live and we have pictures of them being and living together. He is just plain happy with what he has while my mom is struggling with the finances. He even cursed my other sister when we tried to talk to him regarding the situation. Can we file for any child support coming from him? Even if he is not working but he has other resources such as his store and the house we lived before? Can we also file for Anti violence against women & children since he cursed my sister and we have a full recording of it?
I am desperate to help my mom about our family and all I can think of is going through legal matters to sort this out.
Also can you advise me of any Law firm that offers cheap or possibly pro bono on this kind of case? We don't have enough money to proceed but I really want to.
Sorry for the long message.