Why the hell is my man watching me thruha t spoon/he denies watching porn and not intrested in sex its screwing my head up and can't handle it /i can't talk to him or he gets all moody and makesout am paranoid

Your question is barely understandable... what is that first line saying?

A few days ago you were figuring he was gay, now he's somehow a stalker too?
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/boyfriend-gay-652668.html

? He is watching you though a spoon? Don't understand.

What does watching porn have to do with being a stalker ?

Why are you still with him if things are so bad?