View Full Version : I really like this guy in my class, but I have a boyfriend.
Campdraftqueen
Apr 21, 2012, 08:56 PM
Ok I have a boyfriend that I love with all my heart, and he loves me, but there is a guy in my wood work and metal work class that is always looking at me, and checking me out, and flirting with me. I kind of like him, but I still love my boyfriend. I don't know if to tell my boyfriend what this guy is doing, and that I kind of like him. Or just to leave it, but I need HELP. Please please.
kayco123
Apr 22, 2012, 02:47 AM
DO NOT TELL UR BF. Just tell the guy you like, if he will stop flirting because you have a boyfriend.
LostPerson987
Apr 22, 2012, 02:51 AM
Ask the guy in your class to stop. If he doesn't your boyfriend deserves to know. Don't hide things, they only get worse.
Ariane16
Apr 22, 2012, 05:33 AM
I think you should wonder whether things are really going well with your boyfriend and if your attraction to the other guy is meaningless.
Sometimes when relationships aren't so satisfying we get interested in other people instead of facing the problem.
I think one good way to know might be to wonder how you would feel if the guy in your class stopped flirting with you. If you think you'll miss it, then the problem might be that your relationship isn't satisfying enough.
talaniman
Apr 22, 2012, 07:56 AM
It's a matter of loyalty, honesty, and handling your business. If you loved your boyfriend with all your heart, you would just be friends with this flirty class mate, but stay within the boundaries of good behavior by telling him you have a boyfriend.
You don't have to cheat because you like someone besides your boyfriend, especially a flirty class mate. You do have to carry yourself with the dignity, and self respect of a female with a boyfriend though, or your love with all your heart is a lie.
If you handle your business correctly, then there is nothing to tell your boyfriend is there? Then you just have a class mate you find cool.
Campdraftqueen
Apr 24, 2012, 03:27 AM
Thx guys you really helped me I just told the guy that I have a boyfriend and it wasn't right