View Full Version : Why don't I feel good enough for my boyfriend?
daisyl
Apr 20, 2012, 08:58 AM
Me and my boyfriend have known each other for over a year now and 2 months ago we got into a relationship. Everything was fine until the 5th week and I just fetl that I'm not good enough for him anymore. He tells me that he loves me all the time and that I'm beautiful and all the rest of it but I just feel like I don't make him has happy as somebody else would and I really don't know what to do because I really do love him?
talaniman
Apr 20, 2012, 09:08 AM
Don't be so insecure you have these negative thoughts that keep you both from enjoying each others time together. You worry too much, and that's not healthy. How old are you and is this your first relationship? Or have you had bad experiences before?
Fr_Chuck
Apr 20, 2012, 09:11 AM
Do you worry for no reason about other things in your life ?
Has he said and did anything to make you feel this way?
Xoxoxo123456
Apr 21, 2012, 05:12 PM
I'm a girl also. And I think what your saying most girls go through at one point in their life were they don't feel good enouph for a guy. Hun if tells you that he loves you, and your beautiful, believe him. Guys don't throw those two words around like nothing when they say it they mean it. And if he is a good boyfriend and you love him and he stays committed to you, you are good enouph for him. Don't queshtion it. Just believe it cause the more you thinnk your not good enouph for him the more your going to start beliveing it and might even try and push away from him and be sad or depressed without him knowing why. So please just know your beautiful in your own way and he see's that.
adeleundead
Mar 26, 2014, 08:26 AM
I know its been two years since you made this post, but on the off chance you will see this comment, I want to let you know that you said the perfect thing for me. I wrote down your comment word for word to keep with me, because I am in this same rut right now. Thank you so much for making this comment two years ago.