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littlebunnyfufu
Apr 17, 2012, 05:09 PM
So I finally found my best friend in 12th grade. And we share everything together. Everyday we talk on Facebook messages about concerts, guys, we also share new songs/discover new artists and stuff like that. So I took P.E. because of her, but I feel like she doesn't want to talk to me anymore. It's nothing personal, but it's just too early in the morning I guess. Or maybe we've run out of stuff to talk about. I feel like it's just awkward. I don't know what to say and I don't know what's wrong. Does this mean that our friendship is breaking? Or do we just need some space away from each other? And just curious, what do best friends usually do together?

Fr_Chuck
Apr 17, 2012, 05:14 PM
Some people talk a lot better on face book than in real life, others do better in real life

Alty
Apr 17, 2012, 05:15 PM
It could be that the two of you spend so much time chatting on fb that you have nothing left to say to each other when you actually see each other. That's what I hate about social networking. It's takes the social aspect right out of the equation.

Talk to her. If she's your bestie you should be able to ask her if there's a problem. Guessing won't help you. Just sit her down, tell her how much you care about her, and tell her how you feel. Don't be confrontational, just be honest, but calm.

As for things best friends do together, I'm of a different generation, a generation that didn't have computers, or texting. A generation where we actually spent time with our friends, face to face, actually talking to each other, going out and having fun together.

Maybe you should arrange a sleepover. Put the cell phones away, don't go near the computer. Get a few chick flicks, make popcorn, and talk. Spend actual time with each other.

I wish you the best of luck, and I hope it all works out.