Been with my girl year and three months and I'm totally locked to her even though I made a mistake of kissing someone else couple months in. Anyway recently she started her new job doing nights I rarely see her now only every other weekend, I text her during the day before her shifts takes ages to reply or not at all ill post on her Facebook I love her and text her but nithing back I'm just upset I'm losing her due to work :(

You don't deserve her is you kissed someone else.
Get over it just like she will.

I ask her why don't she text me saying she loves me then she turns round and says because she doesn't believe I love her, she told me that I need to stop all my music stuff(I produce and dj)

It was funny when she got this job it's a night job I said "i wont see you much then"
She told me to shut up but few months before she got this job I was doing nights and I had to quit the job due to being moaned at constantly about not wanting anything to do with her when I went from work on the bus straight to see her. She moans about coming over to see me as she says it waist petrol. But then she mentions she wants to live with me and stuff like that and then the next day constantly moans about not seeing me and I do all I can to make her happy like we went away she drove but I filled up the car I paid for her to get new speaks and I paid for her smoking habbit but I've never actually had anything given to me at all then she has the cheek to moan at me about me not doing anything for her