lou26
Apr 16, 2012, 12:27 PM
I have been with my boyfiiend for nearly 6 years. We got engaged last June.
I found on his phone a few years ago messages to men (dirty messages), At first I though it was a girls and when I confronted him he said its not what I think and told me it was a man. I dropped called the number and it was a man. He said he hasn't done anything and that it's a dirty habbit and it's a control thing! But he said he has never met anyone or been with a man. A year passed and I found another message and I found out he was on a gay website and saw pictures of himself (not his face) I struggled to get my head round it and he said its nothing and in the past and that nothing has happened. I recently went through his phone a saw a message from this gay friend he knows, he deleted the thread on the messages but what I read was my boyfriend text him saying that he is now there (his office) but his mate texted back saying he can't make it so he must have been planning to meet him. I confronted him but he just shouted at me and didn't answer my question. Every time I try and ask him he gets the hump.
I really don't know what to do, I love him with all my heart but it is contantly on my mind and I think about it every day and can't get over it.
He use to say he won't do it again but now getting closer to home with his mate I don't know what to think anymnore. Im so parinoid about it and very depressed.
I Don't know WHAT TO DO h HELP!!
I found on his phone a few years ago messages to men (dirty messages), At first I though it was a girls and when I confronted him he said its not what I think and told me it was a man. I dropped called the number and it was a man. He said he hasn't done anything and that it's a dirty habbit and it's a control thing! But he said he has never met anyone or been with a man. A year passed and I found another message and I found out he was on a gay website and saw pictures of himself (not his face) I struggled to get my head round it and he said its nothing and in the past and that nothing has happened. I recently went through his phone a saw a message from this gay friend he knows, he deleted the thread on the messages but what I read was my boyfriend text him saying that he is now there (his office) but his mate texted back saying he can't make it so he must have been planning to meet him. I confronted him but he just shouted at me and didn't answer my question. Every time I try and ask him he gets the hump.
I really don't know what to do, I love him with all my heart but it is contantly on my mind and I think about it every day and can't get over it.
He use to say he won't do it again but now getting closer to home with his mate I don't know what to think anymnore. Im so parinoid about it and very depressed.
I Don't know WHAT TO DO h HELP!!