Me and my BFF, we have been through lots! She and my crush became guy and girl best friends and I got jealous, then we had a fight because of a communication break down (I thought she was ignoring me yet she never got the text) then she became friends we my enemy! She knew I liked this boy but she carried on, she knew that I sent here a text but she never told me she could not see and she knew that girl was my enemy! I have tried talking to hear but she just says she is tired of this lectures. Please no mean answers

Please don't attempt to direct how people will answer - this is an open forum.

I don't believe anyone is intentionally mean. People may not want to hear what other people have to say, but that does not make anyone mean.

How old are you?

I don't understand your question. "She knew that i sent here a text but she never told me she could not see and she knew that girl was my enemy!" What?

Anyway, cornering people to get an answer never, ever works. Stop lecturing her, talking to her, badgering her, and walk away with your dignity.

You cannot control what other people do/say/think (or apparently, text).

You can't control what people do. You either accept her as your friend or you don't but don't lecture her.

I mean she knew her phone was not working but she never told me

So what? You are either going to remain her friend or you're not, but stop commenting on everything she does.

I mean she knew her phone was not working but she never told me


She didn't have to tell you. You aren't her parent. You need to back off.