My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 3 years now, also live together. In the beginning of our relationship everything was great, he'd hold my hand, kiss me all the time, be a little touchy feely, not anymore. Now it's feels like we fight all the time, I'm going through a stage where I really can't get turned on by him... He makes me feel unless in his eyes, I've heard I love you maybe 3 times during our relationship, in the last year 0 times, I've heard it. I feel like him and I are more, friends with benefits who live together, instead his girlfriend. I just want him to show, say, anything to let me know he cares. Advice please :(

ADD ON: Things in general just don't feel that right. Is that just because they're different from my last and only serious relationship and I can't help but compare?