I have a playdate group for my children and we all turned out to be friends, always bbqing, going out as couples, playdates for children, etc. One of the moms who I am not super close with because her and I work so our schedules generally don't match for events, got divorced a couple of months ago. Coincidence or not, her and my husband has got somewhat close. The reason why is because they work in the same field and she is supposed to be really good, gives talks on it, etc. At first I just thought it was a good resource for mu husband . Now I am getting concerned. They are always communicating via fb, and at all events they sit close and just talk away. Now she's been inviting him to her events and he is going ( without mentioning anything to me). Messages are generally ending in " looking foward to tomorrow" or " can't wait to see you there". Additional info: We are all between 28-31 years old, and my husband ADORES her little daughter. He can't see her and always goes on how she is the cutest thing , etc. Oh, and I am pregnant. I really do not want to sound like a crazy jeaulous pregnant and that's why I haven't said anything... BTW she looks a lot like his ex ( to top it off!) What you guys think?

Oh I think you had better get a grip and absolutely TELL him to get a grip top. You will not always be out of shape. Both of you need a reality check.

Hmmm I would be worried. Give it some more time to be 100% sure but in the meantime keep your guard up. He could just be helping her through and in the meantime engaging in some harmless flirting. Could be nothing but I know if my husband was doing things behind my back its war. Honesty is most important thing in a marriage.

How often are they meeting ? Once a month at a business event ? Or a couple times a week for social.

You need to bring it to his attention! Screw the waiting to ask him, ask him now!