I am a man. My girlfriend loved me for two years in silent. She had never told me that. We were like friends and she suffered in those two years since it was a love from one side. After I found myself with her, in 2011 we started on msn after two months we declared love to each other. First things went very well. She used to do crazy things for me and fought for me. She did everything to be with me. I treated her with full love and I told her I had a bad relationship in the past. I told her before we can start, you should know that if you leave me one day, you will kill me because I can’t handle two depressions in my life. She told me I love you and I will never leave you... On 2012 she moved to another city to study (100 km).w We met on the weekends or in the week because it is easy for me to move to her city. Whenever I met her, I gave her red flower. One day she came by train, I surprised her with a bunch of flowers. She was very very happy, went to restaurant. I treated her well as princess.

15 days ago, we started arguing about male friends on Facebook. She told me they are my classmate, but how come they are classmate and someone wrote on her wall, I like your hair... plus she has been in fight with her roommate. You should know this girl was only committed to study from the beginning before I know her. When we started to be together she told me it is because of you that I feel I am a woman. She told me I am used only to books and kitchen but now with you, I am a princess. Last Monday, she got injured with a glass in her leg. I traveled one hundred km and took her to hospital. On our way back to her school, she told me she is happy and that she is grateful to me, at the end she told me you know “I can’t see a future in our relationship". I got silent...I told her if you want to break up, tell it to me. She told me no just we had problems lately. I told her you do not work to solve these problems. She went to school and sms me: "Baby I love you. I want to thank you for all you did with me. I'm very lucky with you. If I got nervous just because of my blood period. I love you and you're everything in my life. I’m so sorry. You are the light of my life. I want to beg your pardon and do not consider it a weakness. Baby forgive me for what I said about our relationship I was only nervous. You're my life. There is no one can help me or do me a favor except you. I respect you and you are on my head.".

After that the next day she told me I want to meet you, I told her I’m sorry because I got work to do with my friend ( I only want to make her miss me and to show to her that what she told me yesterday I didn’t like it) then I asked her we can meet the following day. She told me no I got study. After three days I got nervous because I no longer accept her mind childish game. I called her and told her. What is wrong with you, you no longer want to be with me, tell it to me. I do not accept this kind of game... she was nervous. She told me I got problems and I do not want to talk to anyone. I told her even me. She told me yes. I told her do you need space. She told me yes finally she told me you understand it. I told her why you didn’t say it. She told me you come to know it. She told me I got problems with my roommate, your family... want to concentrate on my study... kind of fake staff (I think because if we love some one, we better be with him in our bad times).

I told her for how long month, two... she told me no just I finish my exams and I will contact you. From then I did no contact rule. But I'm in a serious dilemma with myself. I do not know if she is with another one or what. Or she really needs time of her own. Please help me to solve this problem.

Sounds like you are very possessive and she feels it and does not like it. You are projecting your past her on to her and that is not fair.
Yo play games with her then accuse her of doing it. You need to be alone and work on yourself. You have a lot of insecurities

I told her my past because she asked and insisted on it.my past is totally dead.She kept asking me. I treated her well.She is fully jealous that's why I acted the same with her on fcebook. Yr advice would be grateful how to fix things.thanks again

The only thing you can do is ask her and accept the answer she gives.
It sounds as though she wants a break with you, if so you must give it. You seem to be a bit intense.

You should know that at the end of our phone call.She told me you r a great man.M very lucky to have you beside me.do not be scared.what does it mean for you homegirl! Good to get yr good advice since yr a girl.please read my story and focus on solutions thankx in advance

I think she is telling you that you are a nice man and you should not be so afraid and insecure. She wants a break, you should accept that

Homegirl we only got fight as normal people for é WEEKS on our nerves. So how come we ask break for small things unless there is a strong reason.dont you think so!! B positive and treat things logically.help instead of killing me too

I don't want to make you sad, but sometimes that is the way things happens. You just don't feel the same about a person. You don't have to fight but sometimes things no longer fit together.
You have to accept that this is the way she feels.

Relax dude, you are way to uptight, and react badly to small things you make into big ones. To insecure I think. That insecurity makes you selfish, and you over react. So just be honest and no games, and be patient, and not over think things.

Never looked to be reassured for every little small negative thought, let some of this stuff go, and give her space. No need to push so hard and give her space to handle the personal business in her personal life.

Boy do you need some confidence so you don't have hissy fits when you want attention.

Yes, guys tell friends they have great hair, they may say or tell they are look sexy. That is what friends do. You are and have made way too much out of little things and tried to control her way too much. While I doubt she will give you another chance, because she needs respect and trust . And you were not giving her any trust. A guy may come on to her and ask her out, several guys may, you have to trust her to be able to say no.