dalpozzo
Apr 4, 2012, 02:03 AM
My husband and I have been happily married for 40 years, he has always loved the company of women around him. But, a friend of ours (was of mine) always caused an argument when we three went out for dinner, etc. She would tell lies, and of course, I always reacted, so then my husband, believing her lies, accused me of always causing the argument. Since then, she attacked me, but told my husband that I attacked her, he believed her.
I have spoken with him many times, but he says, that he will take her out without me. I know he loves me more than anything, as I do him, but she is now in her element, knowing that I will not be invited out with them or go back to her place for a coffee, or whatever. She phones him, & he to her, they sent emails to each other, when I sent something personal to him, he sends it to her.
I really don't know what to do, he doesn't see the hurt this is causing me. He said, you two have a problem, fix it. This has been going on for over 2 years now, and I am at my wits end. PS. She flirts with him all the time, but, I honestly believe that they are not having sex.
I have spoken with him many times, but he says, that he will take her out without me. I know he loves me more than anything, as I do him, but she is now in her element, knowing that I will not be invited out with them or go back to her place for a coffee, or whatever. She phones him, & he to her, they sent emails to each other, when I sent something personal to him, he sends it to her.
I really don't know what to do, he doesn't see the hurt this is causing me. He said, you two have a problem, fix it. This has been going on for over 2 years now, and I am at my wits end. PS. She flirts with him all the time, but, I honestly believe that they are not having sex.