So,just had a date with a lovely girl,my age,and lives fairly near to me.we chatted a lot and laughed and it all felt so right and natural,then later when the moment was right,we kissed and it was incredible,when we both had to go,she took my hand and led me back to my car.when we got there she said 'i will see you again... won't I?' and I said 'yes of course! ' we texted back and forth after that,and I made it clear I was keen to see her again soon,and she made it equally plain she wanted to see me too,its now 4 days later and she has said since then 'i don't want you to think I'm being off with you or anything like that,its just my head is spinning about all this,its new to me,so don't think I am not interested when I am OK?' I said I would not rush her into anything or force her,and the next day asked her on another date,and that we could do whatever she wants to do,go wherever.she then said 'im not sure... but I do want a ride in your car though' what the hell is going on?? I don't know where I am with tis girl at all,help!

I don't understand her at all, too. Did she like you for your car?

Hello Stellaw,it seems that she has a lot of problems and stuff going on in her own life right now,but I have only found this out very recently (in last few days) she suffers sleep deprivation also due to isomnia.what I can't understand is why she put on her profile on the website I met her on that she wanted to experience being with a girl and try something new,then I come along,we have a really nice first date which seems very promising... but now she seems to have backed right off even though she tells me she will see me again when her head is more sorted